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So I’ve finished reading the 50 shades of Grey. First of all, don’t judge me because I’ve read that book. My friend really had a hangover about it that she even urge me to read the books. And since, it’s still semestral break, I gave it a shot. Well, it’s quite a book, I would say. I’ve never read any book in the same genre so this is my first time.
The first book is really just… weird. For first timers of this genre, maybe it’s really weird for us. lol.
One thing I would say about the sex scenes is that they were poorly written. I just scanned most of them. Maybe it’s because the author uses the same words over and over again then it turns out to be boring. Really. And they have sex like, every fucking time. The hell. Inappropriate sometimes. There’s one scene when they were chased by some unknown person. Then when they stopped at a parking lot to hide, they had sex. in. the. fucking. car. Like really? You guys have the guts to have sex when there’s someone out there chasing the hell out of you? lol. But then, in the story, it’s their form of communication. I have nothing against that. Have it their way then. lol. There are also many scenes that would pretty much not happen in real life like the way it was written in the book. Uh, let’s take for example Ana. Ana’s a virgin and then she gave Christian an oral, a BJ, and in the book it seems like she did it like a champion in an oral contest or something. Like seriously? what the fuck really. hahaha.
Okay. That’s it. I really don’t want to spoil more. haha. But afterall, I liked reading it. Just read it if you’re too curious about it lol. Just be sure you have all the three books once you started reading it. Because you can’t really stop flipping through pages and figure out what happens next. Like just-to-get-over-with-it feeling. Hahaha
Tama nga ang sabi ng iba, “Iiyak mo lang yan.” Seryoso. Makakatulong ‘yon. Mapababae man o lalaki, go iyak lang. Nasaktan ka e. Hayaan mo ‘yung sarili mo na umiyak. ‘Wag mong itago sa sarili mo yung sakit. Mas mahihirapan ka ‘non.
E bakit nga ba kailangan na ganun ang gawin? Kasi makakatulong ‘to na matanggap mo ng lubusan kung ano na nga ba ang nangyari sainyo ng partner mo.
Lahat ng emo stuff gawin mo sa period na ito. Tulad ng pakikinig ng mga love songs, pagyakap sa unan habang umiiyak. Laaaahaaat gawin mo, lahat ng kaartehan. Mas mabuti din kung gagawin mo ‘to ng may kasama ka tulad ng bestfriend mo o kung sino man na komportable ka kasama. Mas nakakagaan kasi ng pakiramdam.
Ang tanging rule lang dito ay, limitahan mo ang sarili mo. Noong nagbreak kami ng boyfriend ko, sinabi ko sa sarili ko na magpapaka-gaga ako for two weeks. After non,
lalandi balik to normal na dapat ulit ako. Kailangan pagkatapos ng dalawang linggo na iyon maiayos ko na ulit ‘yung sarili ko.
Oo, alam ko mahirap. Sobra. Pero may choice ka pa ba? Isipin mo na lang din ‘tong dalawang linggo na parang binibigyan mo din ‘yung partner mo ng chance para maayos ‘yung kung ano mang naging dahilang ng break-up nyo. Sige, okay lang na kausapin mo siya. Kung may mga gusto kang itanong, itanong mo na. Pero tandaan mo na pagtapos ng dalawang linggo, dapat wala na kayong komunikasyon. Depende kung gusto niyo pa rin maging “friends”. Pero hindi ba’t mas masakit ‘yon? Kaibigan mo na lang ang dating tao na naging lahat para sa’yo.
‘Wag na maging tanga, okay? Kaya mo yan. Kailangan lang talaga ng kontrol sa sarili. Hindi pa katapusan ng mundo. :)
Everything happens for a reason.
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